Here’s How Your Sign Can Rekindle the Fireworks in Your Marriage

Routine is normal, but it can also be the death of marital excitement. No matter how rock solid our marriages are, we have to find small ways to ignite our passion and keep the spark alive. Find the easy way each star sign can light a flame to keep their relationship smoldering.

March 21 – April 19

Aries is made of steel, and sometimes that inner strength can lead to a lack of tenderness in a marriage. Instead of keeping an emotional wall up. this ram sign needs to work on being vulnerable and letting their partner see their softer side. By sharing their hearts with the ones they love, their partners are more likely to feel a stronger connection to them.

April 20 – May 20

Taurus has a habit of taking on the biggest responsibilities to make life easier for their loved ones. The problem with this giving attitude is that it also leaves these bulls overburdened and too exhausted for emotional connections. To find their spark once more, this loyal sign needs to let their partners share in the household tasks so they can have energy for intimacy when the day ends.

May 21 – June 20

Gemini is naturally expressive and at times, they can be hypercritical of the ones they love. While their words are meant to help, not hurt, they definitely put a damper on the romantic energy in a relationship. To rekindle the lost spark, Gemini has to learn the art of zipping their lips instead of pointing out their partner's flaws.

June 21 – July 22

Cancer is perfectly happy hanging out at home with their love watching TV or sitting on the deck watching the sunset. Although sweet and simple moments are important, the redundancy can become boring. These crab signs aren't known for making grand gestures, but occasionally jumping out of their comfort zones to do something new can resuscitate the emotional heat in their marriages.

July 23 – August 22

We love Leo but we don't love how often they second-guess themselves. Being in love with this lion sign means giving a lot of praise and encouragement, which can be exhausting and can extinguish the flames of passion in the process. If Leo wants to turn up the heat, they've got to let their insecurities go and be bold (which is a huge turn-on for their partners).

August 23 – September 22

Virgo is a bit OCD, which can make their partner feel as if they're walking on eggshells. Nothing smothers a romantic flame like being afraid to make your partner upset over the smallest thing. This maiden sign needs to practice relaxing their iron grip and let things happen without stepping in to fix it. Their partner will relax in turn, allowing the sparks to fly once more.

September 23 – October 22

Libra is the judge of the zodiac. While they're often fair and balanced in their assessments, they can be more extreme with their partners. They have firm beliefs and don't waiver, making them come across as authoritative instead of romantic. If they want to make their partners feel warm and cozy, they've got to learn to let the judgment go and accept their partner, thorns and all.

October 23 – November 22

Scorpio gets overwhelmed quickly, but they tend to keep piling more responsibilities on their plate in spite of their distress. All this sign needs to do to find their romantic spark is clear their schedules, get a sitter and spend some relaxing one-on-one time with their partner. Regularly scheduled alone time with the one they love can do a lot to reignite the fireworks in their marriage.

November 23 – December 21

Sagittarius lives in their head most of the time and can forget to acknowledge their partner, even when they're lying in bed next to them. This sign also loves adventure and new experiences, so planning an escapade away from work and home is the perfect way to get them back in a romantic frame of mind and see their partner through new, adoring eyes.

December 22 – January 18

Whatever they're doing, Capricorn goes all in. This sign suffers from tunnel vision and tends to only see what's in front of them, which causes them to miss special moments of connection with their partner. If these sea-goats can find a way to prioritize their love life the same way they do their goals, they'll find the magic that brought them together with their partner is still potent.

January 19 – February 18

As John Mayer once sang, "Say what you need to say." Aquarius spends a lot of time taking the high road in their relationship, but their reluctance to admit when they're unhappy or unfulfilled can lead them to feel disconnected from their partner. This highly independent sign needs to find a way to speak their heart's truth if they want to feel closer to their partner and create fireworks in their marriage once more.

February 19 – March 20

Pisces is great at making others feel special. In fact, they're so good at it that their partner can become dependent upon being the center of the relationship. When one person is taking all the emotional energy, it can leave a marriage unbalanced. Pisces needs to be a little more selfish and let moments be about their happiness and enjoyment. This will re-spark their own passion and strengthen the chemistry in their marriage.