20 Everyday Ways to Show Your Wife You Appreciate Her

Since you met your wife, she has been your rock. She's there when times are tough and by your side to celebrate your biggest achievements. She's your No. 1 cheerleader and your best friend and, let's be real, without her, life would be chaos. It's time to show her exactly how much she means to you.

Did you know that when it comes to poor sleep, women suffer more than men? Thanks to hormones and aging, a poor night's sleep can hamper a woman's day and lead to increased inflammation and disease risk. Give your wife the gift of much needed rest by taking over any morning duties that might interrupt her sleep cycle. She'll be happier and so will you.

Women are quick to give but often slow to receive. A great way to help break that habit is to bring your wife breakfast in bed. If she's not much of a morning meal person, bring her a hot cup of coffee or tea, a few slices of her favorite fruit and maybe the morning paper. It's the effort and consideration that matters, not what's on the plate.

If you've ever heard your wife mention a coffee date with her friends, then you know she enjoys connecting with others over a delicious, caffeinated beverage. Take her cue and schedule a coffee date with her at her favorite location. She'll be pleasantly surprised and you'll get a chance to show your wife how much you value spending time with her.

Is your wife an avid runner? Or maybe she likes walking, swimming or something totally different (ropeless rock climbing)? Whatever it is your wife likes to do to get her blood pumping, ask to tag along once in awhile. Not only will she get a kick out of showing you her fitness routine, but research shows that exercising together actually increases a couple's chance of staying together.

Give your wife a much appreciated break from her regular chores now and then. Whether it's tackling the mountain of laundry, washing the after-dinner dishes or giving your children their nightly baths, let her kick back and relax while you get the job done. You'll show her you're in this together while acknowledging just how much she truly does.

Maybe your wife asked you months ago to repaint the trim, fix the leaky sink or clear out the garage, and maybe you've been putting them off because you'd rather relax on the weekends. Since your wife rarely puts something off that's important to you, doing the same would be a great way to show her how much you appreciate her, no words needed.

Women tend to be natural communicators. If your wife has ever complained that you "don't really listen" when she's talking, give her what she's craving: your undivided attention. Don't look at your phone or the TV when she speaks. Instead, focus on her—and, when appropriate, ask her follow-up questions to show you're really hearing what she's saying.

An incredibly easy gift that will warm your wife's heart for years to come is a memory jar. Use scraps of paper to write out special memories you have of her, especially moments where she shined with her wit, humor or kindness. Then, fold and place them in a simple jar to let her know that throughout the years you've spent together, she's never ceased to amaze you.

Find out the exact flowers your wife loves and bring her a bouquet of them for no reason at all except to say "I was thinking of you." If she's not a flower person, make an effort to learn the things your wife adores and find opportune moments to surprise her with them as a gift.

You don't have to go all Gordon Ramsay in the kitchen to take the pressure of dinner off your wife's shoulders. Bring home her favorite takeout and let her know that it may not taste as good as her recipes, but you wanted her to have a night off once in awhile, too.

Gratitude isn't just about acts of service or gifts, it also comes through when we validate someone's feelings and ideas. Let your wife know you not only hear her, but you support her emotionally and mentally. By validating her, you'll reinforce that you are as much her rock as she is yours.

The reason women value their friendships so much is because it's a place for them to get unequivocal support. Be your wife's champion by taking her side and showing her that no matter what happens, you've got her back and will go to bat for her when she needs you.

Whether your wife heads to work each day or stays home to take care of the kids (or both) she deserves to have some quiet time for reflection. Encourage her to take time for herself to destress and unwind. Not only will she be happier and more mellow, but she'll see that you are looking out for her and helping her be her best self.

Sometimes it takes walking a mile in someone else's shoes to realize all that they do. Instead of letting your wife handle the household errands, ask her if you can tag along and help. You might be surprised to see all that she takes care of without needing to be asked.

Your wife probably does a lot for everyone else but hardly makes time to take care of herself. Change that by indulging her with a visit to a day spa. Let her get massaged and beautified, without having to worry about anyone or anything. When she's done, she'll be reinvigorated and more energized to take care of the ones she loves.

Fantasies aren't just for the bedroom. Ask any woman what her perfect day entails and she'll tell you. Chances are, she's long imagined such a day in secret many times before. Be her hero by turning those dreams into reality. Whether she wants a sunset picnic or a day without chores, you have the power to create for her a truly amazing day that will show her how special she is to you.

Want to instantly make your wife feel like the most amazing person in the room? Then make an effort to tell your friends, colleagues and family members just how awesome she is, right in front of her. Praising her virtues lets her know you see the best in her and will make her feel like a million bucks in your eyes.

Splurge on tickets to the theater or an upscale event that requires a little more effort than leggings and lip gloss. Give your wife the chance to get glammed up with you for a night on the town. While it doesn't have to be a frequent excursion, occasionally giving her a reason to buy a new dress isn't a bad thing.

You two may have very different tastes in TV shows but that doesn't mean you can't curl up with your wife on the couch and binge-watch a season of her favorite show with her. Just don't make fun of the show while you're watching. That would ruin her enjoyment and make you look like a jerk.

You may say "thank you" to your wife often, but do you take the time to really tell her how she's changed your life for the better? If not, you should. Tell your wife how much you appreciate her and exactly how she's shown you, time and time again, that she's the only woman you want or need in your life.